How much is too much, when is it time to walk away and disconnect for good. Toxic relationships, be it with a significant other, friends or family members when do you say no more.
It is time to cut all ties with a toxic person or people when it has affected your life for the worse! They are never wrong, they are perpetual victims, and you are the perpetrator in their mind. They misjudge ones every move; they try to destroy your relationships, your life. You are their project, stalking you, following your every move, online or via other friends or family. Sitting there waiting to pounce on you when given the opportunity again. They keep records of wrongs done to them real or imagined played over and over again to anyone who will listen. The drama follows them; it is a never-ending cycle. They are emotional vampires sucking the very life out of you!
I prefer to be naively optimistic in saying that most people are kind, well-adjusted individuals who demonstrate positive, likable qualities. However, there are also plenty of people who are insecure, selfish, and downright unkind.
It’s a wonder to me why we bother to get to know these people, but we do, and it’s tough to cut them out of our lives once we’ve let them in. It’s easy to talk ourselves out of taking this step, but it’s necessary if we want to maintain healthy mental and emotional states. If you’re unsure, here are some ways to spot a toxic person in your life.
What is a toxic person? https://thoughtcatalog.com/terran-tout/2014/11/9-signs-that-a-person-is-toxic/
It is challenging to cut a toxic person out of your life especially if they are a relative. We feel guilty as they are family, you want to try to make the relationship work as they may indeed be your brothers, sisters, cousins, aunts, uncles or parents. At times contact has to be made concerning family matters and it can be miserable. Disconnecting can be done and should be, it is a matter of keeping your mental, physical health peace and happiness intact.
Toxic people are often substance abuser whether legal or illegally obtained; they cause commotion everywhere they go. They can be a nightmare, however, the role that they play in your life, they are never wrong and find fault with everyone else while never holding himself or herself accountable. The toxic person will twist the truth so much it is no longer recognizable. To survive, you need to cut all ties at all cost. Otherwise, the price paid will be too high in the end! We only have one life to live and time passes quickly, why not have what happiness you can obtain not allowing those who are miserable to take you down with them
